If you are not taking care of yourself, no one gonna take care of you as much. That goes for both career n relationship.
Keep on improving yourself!
'Weaponized' yourself and get as much bullet as possible. You may not need them now but at least you can fire anytime you want.
Self improving is the best investment one can ever make.
Call it self-centered or whatever, I don't really care.
That's the reality, for me.